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Tuesday, August 28, 2012

In Pursuit Of Happiness!

Some days sunshine doesn't help.Pain persists.When in pain,LAUGH and blame it on stars and planets and even if this doesn't work then write.Simply write.Boys are always cheerful (I'm not a male chauvinist.I'm not a sexist :D #JustSaying :P).You will never find a single boy crying and whining for little things.But life is so harsh sometimes.Things go wrong.People blame you for the things you are not at all responsible for and when it happens altogether it becomes difficult to bear the pain.Boys are born with this attitude ->Who needs it? Who cares? I'm not gonna look back and why should I.On the contrary,they are weak,not physically and mentally but emotionally.They will never accept it,NEVER.But deep down they know they are.But that's not the issue.Pain makes us stronger.It will help us to make ourselves more stable and eventually grow into a better individual.

Well,this post has nothing to do with boys and their inbuilt qualities (Pun-intended :D).It's more about Happiness.When I scroll down,I find my blog jam-packed with negative posts.The only thing that strikes my mind at this particular instant is to make use of "DELETE" option which I often use when active on social networking sites.I consider myself as one the most optimistic,confident and cheerful person who loves himself for all the little qualities he possess.Love yourself,embrace yourself as the perfect(Though,perfection is a delusional myth and it varies according to person's mentality) and others will return that love.And then only the search for love and happiness is worth while (At times,this self-love turns into obsessive love,yes indeed :P)But still that little silliness makes me happy.I am not at the zenith nor I had accomplished anything big but whatever i had done has been the outcome of that *little silliness*that always sparkled me.

When people were playing Farm ville,City villa,Texas Poker and doing other idiotic things to make themselves happy and live in their world of "so-called-fantasy",I always find myself at good position because I chose the path of becoming Independent and I worked hard for it.It needs hard labour,patience and sleepless nights,if you truly want to earn a good amount from Internet.Of success and ethics,I tried my best to choose ethics.I was learning,I am still learning and when learning and quest for eternal knowledge becomes passion,you automatically become blind,deaf and dumb.Well it may not help me at present but it will surely gonna make my future bright.

Every time I log in to my fb account and find a message saying “Plz like my profile pic”,”Plz like my comment” I feel like killing that guy or a girl (Again ,I’m not a sexist :P) but then I end up doing what they say. If such a simple thing makes them happy, simply do it. It does not cost much ,I guess :P.Most of the people find it silly but your own happiness has so much to do with,“ How you make others happy”!. It is of no use to upload *stud-looking pics*,tag friends in attractive photos and do all other silly stuffs like “You like mine I like yours” :P.It is nothing but mutual sympathy :P .It’s good up to certain extent but Do you really find happiness in it? 

Seriously,I don’t and hence I never did it though I have a good collection of it.I find happiness in counting the pics I’m tagged in. Uploading a photo and craving for likes is what this virtual world is all about. And hence it sucks. But then again as said before, I will do this thing as well because it makes them happy and ultimately it will make me happy.:D 

Happiness is not full stomach , it is *contended mind*.It is a kind of feeling. It is a kind of satisfaction. ”Being ME” is once again a kind of happiness. And people just don’t understand this simple thing which makes me Happy,once again (For no good reason :P).Pardon me if this sounds a bit confusing or too sombre. For this is just a thought. It may sound weird but this is what I think (*wink*)
 


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A day before yesterday I read somewhere “Ethereal happiness is a self-created sand castle on your personal shore”.It really sounds good. Yes, it will fall again and again and again as it is not cemented, glued, taped and walled. But you can’t keep yourself fixated over the fall. Go with the flow, try to explore as much as you can, let it fall now and then because if it doesn’t fall there will be nothing to work for, nothing to build, nothing to look forward to, nothing to prove and nothing to gain,nothing to lose.Fear will only cut your wings.Spread your wings as wind is always beneath your wings.Give it a try.Don't think of the painful fall.The habit of flying will overshadow all your pain.And without the painful fall or loss, would the final product feel worth it? And the answer is NO.A big “NO”.



Life will be monotonous and life without adventure and craziness is not worth living.I'll stick to my opinion and I seriously don't care if it sounds weird and immature :P. The painful fall is must. It’s a part of our life, part of our journey, part of a journey which always search for happiness.Happiness comes your way even when pain exists. It’s more like an asshole who always exists with you but you really can’t see it. It’s a very subjective concept that has different interpretation when asked to different people.This is what I believe and it is just a glimpse of it. I'm ending this post here considering the SEO factors (Oh yeah! I'm going to become a software engineer and thus knowledge of SEO is required :P).Lol,it's just due to time constraints.No other factors.A lot more to me.This is just a beginning.


P.S. And hence there is a need of competitors and enemies to make the castle fall and I don’t mind loving them for doing such a dirty thing. :P

P.P.S: Special thanks to the person who suggested me to write a post which truly reflects me and without pointing fingers on anyone else :D(Well,I didn't hear the latter part and so is the outcome :D) This is indeed a positive post.*Sigh*
  
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~Sayonara!

Sunday, August 19, 2012

Life it is called!

Here I am,once again.140 characters are just not enough.Screw Twitter.Screw Facebook.Screw all other online article sharing platforms.They make us robots.Money making robots.Screw everything that happened.Back to blog.Back to dreams.Back to life.

The world is sleeping right now.Oh yeah! My watch says 2 a.m.Good Morning people. Zzzzee (Can’t hear?)Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz (OMG!they can’t.Everyone is sleeping except me. :D)
So Why I deleted all my previous posts.(Still wondering?:O) So why I’m writing this blog once again.(still wondering? :O)Soul searching? Lol.No.Of course not.Am I dumb? Ummm..okay,don’t answer that. :P:D

And the answer is again a question "What is this life full of care,we have no time to stand and stare"-Robert Frost
This quote relates with everyone's life.Often in life,we get so caught up playing duties,roles and responsibilities that we tend to forget who we are,what is our purpose of life? what is our motto? What are we chasing?Is is worth chasing? Is it making us happy( *Eternal Happiness* :D)?or we are just running,running without reason,without purpose, just to quench the thirst of getting success,money,name and fame.We have our answers.All answers.But no solutions.And this is the biggest tragedy of life.

Life is a race,a never ending race and we are entrapped in this cage of life,a never ending loop which will remain unchanged and unresolved.In between we run,we compete,we fight,we chase,we win sometimes,we lose sometimes.Things change, and so do people and this crucified world keeps turning.

Often times when things are difficult,it almost seems like the whole universe is conspiring against you.Everything you do ,say,write - goes against you. Nothing seems to work. That is when the opposite life is at its best.People keep on giving advices.People suggest you to change so that you can bring a positive change in society as well.People force you to chase your dreams and stop competing with others.But things around you get blurred,the day you start earning,the day you become independent,the day you start day dreaming.Nothing is visible to you.A thing quite similar to color-blindness or something of that kind. But then again,change is mandatory.It is the law of nature.We have to learn and change accordingly.

Often,I wonder how many people in my life love me?And I mean truly .Family is an exception, obviously.The strangers,the friends,the society people.I don’t need their love (honestly,for me,the true love of 18 people which I call my family is more than enough to live my whole life happily)but still I wonder sometimes.I am insane(or much like that).I regularly need people to show me that they love me.And if they don’t,it makes me sad.Real sad.:D .I know it is somewhat childish thing and this blog is definitely not to reveal such secrets but I’m actually not kidding.Damn! It's true.

I know life is too short.It just has four letters.We can either keep grudges or we can live it to the fullest.Choice is completely ours.Nobody is forcing or compelling us to change or to do the things we are not suppose to do or the things which we think are morally incorrect.Nobody is judging us,no one has right to judge us.Its completely our life and whatever we make out of it is the outcome of our efforts and maturity level and all such bookish things.But knowing all these sayings,the answer,the search for true love and happiness,the count of persons in my mind remain unchanged,unresolved,always a question.Always a mystery.

The only answer I have today is that life is all about being with those who make our soul smile,it is all about realizing who we should never let go of,rest everything else is material,EVERYTHING.Our sole purpose of life is to experience the big, wide world, to realize our dreams of adventure.When we're able to ask our self a question like, "What is the purpose of my life?" then only we're on the road to self-understanding, self-actualization and, hopefully Self-realization. Oh, and once the journey has begun it seems there is no going back.No turning back.Sky is the limit.Dream.Live.Explore.All smiles. :):)

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~Sayonara! :)

Change is Mandatory!

One day a florist went to a barber for a haircut. After the cut, he asked about his bill, and the barber replied, 'I cannot accept money from you. I'm doing community service this week.' The florist was pleased and left the shop. When the barber went to open his shop the next morning, there was a 'thank you' card and a dozen roses waiting for him at his door.

Later, a cop comes in for a haircut, and when he tries to pay his bill, the barber again replied, 'I cannot accept money from you. I'm doing community service this week.' The cop was happy and left the shop. The next morning when the barber went to open up, there was a 'thank you' card and a dozen donuts waiting for him at his door.

Then an Indian Politician came in for a haircut, and when he went to pay his bill, the barber again replied, 'I can not accept money from you. I'm doing community service this week.' The Indian Politician was very happy and left the shop. The next morning, when the barber went to open up, there were a dozen Indian Politicians lined up waiting for a free haircut.

And that, my friends, illustrates the fundamental difference between the citizens of our country and the politicians who run it.

BOTH POLITICIANS AND DIAPERS NEED TO BE CHANGED OFTEN AND FOR THE SAME REASON!

If we are not changing our politicians every 5 years.It's high time we did it now.Change is Mandatory,at least here in India and other so-called-developing countries.We are on the verge of becoming a developed nation but we are socially,democratically and economically weak.We have resources.We have hard working people but still the awareness,the strong will power to bring a change is missing(specially in a country like India).The reason being our mundane life and our level of satisfaction.We are satisfied,we don't eager and ask for more.We lack courage and hence Politicians dominate us.There is so-called-democracy but is of no use as we are still dancing like puppets with the strings in hands of our politicians.It's a high time that we should bring a change(here, I mean Youth),because if this opportunity is lost we will always remain under-developed country and our progress will be obstructed and hindered.


~Sayonara!